Scripture
readings: Isaiah 55:1-13; John 4:1-26
When I
was a kid, there was this line that a lot of kids knew. It comes from an old,
old poem, but there was also an old, old cartoon, in black and white, that was
sometimes shown on TV, early on Saturday mornings. The line was: “Welcome to my
parlor said the spider to the fly.”
Along Lower Crab Creek, Desert Aire/Mattawa, WA January 2017 |
We invented
games in which we had teams that would hide from each other, and ambush members
of the other team, and capture them, and put them in our prison. When we caught
someone, we just might say: “Welcome my parlor, said the spider to the fly.”
We said
this to sound scary.
I liked
watching spiders to see what it was like for them to lie in wait, in order to catch
other bugs. I also liked teasing spiders by dropping little bits of things into
their webs and watching them come out to see what it was. When they found that
it wasn’t a bug, they would tear the thing out of their web, and drop it to the
ground, and repair the damage I had caused.
When
Jesus rested by the well, at the town of Sychar, I’ve always felt that he was
lurking on purpose. Jesus was lying in wait to capture this woman and as much
of her town as possible.
He wasn’t
doing this for a spider’s reasons. I think spiders enjoy what they do. I think
Jesus enjoyed what he was doing; although he was doing this for completely
different reasons. Jesus lay in wait for love. Jesus already knew this woman
and her town. Jesus loved them; although they had no idea that they were so
known and so loved.
Ages ago,
I learned a prayer that is one of those prayers that ought to be one of the
first prayers you pray when you wake up in the morning. It goes like this: “Good
morning, Lord. What are you up to today? Let me be a part of it.”
When you’ve
prayed this prayer in the morning, for the rest of the day, no matter how busy
the day becomes, this prayer sets you up to lie in wait to find out what the
Lord is up to. You lie in wait to see who it is that the Lord wants you to love
that day. You lie in wait to see who it is that needs to know that the Lord
himself knows them and loves them.
You have
to be forewarned that it’s possible, even for Christians, to lie in wait for a
spider’s reasons. For some Christians being an agent of Jesus is more like
proving themselves, or scoring points. They’re doing it to get something.
Jesus lay
in wait in order to give. He asked for a drink of water, and there’s no mention
that he ever got what he asked for. Just so, there’s no record that he ate any
of the food the disciples went to get for him. Jesus asked purely so that he
could give. Jesus gave the woman what he told her that she should have asked
for from him. Jesus gave her living water.
Living
water, technically, meant running water, water that moved: like fresh creek-water,
instead of well-water. John tells us, in the twentieth chapter of his gospel,
that he selected the material for his gospel for a purpose: “These are written
that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by
believing you may have life in his name.” (John 20:31) The story of Jesus and
the woman at the well tells us who Jesus is, so that we may believe in what he
truly is. And it tells us about the life we receive from him, because of who he
is.
Jesus is
the giver of the living water. The Lord, in the book of the prophet Isaiah, is
the giver of living water. The Lord says: “Come, all you who are thirsty, come
to the waters.” (Isaiah 55:1) Those who come to the giver of the waters will
find life, and nourishment, and forgiveness, and mercy.
Jesus
told the woman that she needed what only he could give her. And he told her how
well he knew her need.
He told
her that he was willing to give her new life though his living water, which was
the gift of the life of the Holy Spirit: a Spirit-centered life, a God-centered
life. He told her enough about her life to prove that he knew everything she
had ever done. He also told her that he was everything that she had ever hoped
for.
Jesus
died on the cross carrying our sins, and feeling the full weight of their power
and despair. When he prayed for those who crucified him (“Father, forgive them
for they know not what they do.”) he was also praying for us, because we seldom
see to the depths of our own sins that helped to put him on the cross. When we
see Jesus on the cross for us, then we know that we are both fully known and
fully loved.
The story
of Jesus and the woman at the well shows us how his lying in wait for us, and
our lying in wait for others, is more like a conversation than an ambush. Or
maybe it was Jesus who turned an ambush into a conversation.
The woman
at the well seemed pretty resistant to Jesus. She almost ambushed Jesus with
challenges. If she had talked to us the way she talked to him, we would have
stopped and left her alone. Jesus didn’t stop. At very least, he didn’t leave
her alone.
We wouldn’t
have known what to make of her. Technically, she was mostly asking questions,
but they were rude questions. They were off-putting questions, and they were
evasive, and slippery, and tricky.
The woman’s
questions show her to be full of layers of defensiveness, and Jesus peeled back
those layers, one by one. Haven’t you found that Jesus has been trying to do
the same with you, all along. We hardly know ourselves, and we certainly don’t
want other people to know everything about us. We don’t want to know everything
about ourselves.
We are
just like the woman at the well. We have to find out, sooner or later, that
Jesus knows everything about us. Once again, John is giving us an example from
the life and ministry of Jesus, in order to tell us who Jesus really is. There’s
a wonderful Psalm that tells us who God is. It’s Psalm 139. “O Lord, you have
searched me and know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my
thoughts from afar.” (Psalm 139:1-2)
This is
who Jesus is. We are a mystery to ourselves until we find out exactly what
Jesus has uncovered at last. He is the Lord who searches us and knows us.
Everyone
we know is just such a mystery as we are to them. To lie in wait for others in
love we have to be willing to not stop and go away. We have to stay in
conversation with others until we see Jesus uncover the layers, whatever time
it takes.
The very
first thing that Jesus showed the woman was that he trusted her and he gave her
the dignity of having something worth giving to him. We lie in wait, in love,
by showing others that we trust them. We treat them humbly in the faith that we
believe they having something worth giving to us.
There’s
no greater honor than knowing that you have something worth giving. Jesus has
given us this honor and this gift. When we follow Jesus, we learn to give such
honor to others.
Jesus
geared what he said to what the woman said to him. Jesus let the woman set the
agenda. That’s another honor that we give to others, when we love them as Jesus
loves them.
It comes
from being willing to love others graciously from the depths of our hearts. It
means loving in spirit and in truth, just as we have learned how to worship God
in spirit and in truth; from the depths of our hearts. This comes from Jesus,
who loves us from the depths of his cross, and so we love others from the
depths of our own cross that we have taken up in order to follow Jesus.
We haven’t
read all the way to the end of the story. One of the great things Jesus says
there is this: “My food is to do the will of him who sent me, and to finish his
work.” (John 4:34) When we have the spring of living water welling up in to us
eternal life (John 4:14) then we will only give to others what Jesus has
already given to us.
Spiders
lie in wait to eat. The people of Jesus lie in wait to give, and that is their
food. They have started their day with the prayer. “Good morning, Lord. What
are you up to today? Let me be a part of it.”